Resident advisers (RA)
are like dormitory moms. It is sort of like standing duty in the barracks. RAs
are in charge of maintaining an inclusive, safe, positive, and welcoming
environment within the residence hall they are assigned. RAs must maintain
leadership roles by demonstrating that they are role models, peer advisors, and
student advocates. Residence halls are like the barracks for a university.
Well, with some major differences, obviously, depending upon which military
community you came from.
Halls are usually
integrated, male and female; although, some schools still have singe gender
options, especially many private, religious-based institutions. Nowadays, the
trend is to allow students to room with whomever they select. These options are
typically referred to as gender-neutral housing. Gender-neutral halls are not
just girlfriends and boyfriends shacking up with each other, not that it
doesn't happen. And, just like your time in the barracks, remember that
roommates don't always disappear when you might be trying to have sexy time,
with a partner...or alone for that matter. Some schools separate gender by
floors and others fully integrate them, so every other room may house students
of the other gender. It gets weirder! While most schools still separate the
bathrooms by gender, other institutions are integrating those as well. Meaning,
you may be in a bathroom stall or a shower stall (most only have curtains!) next
to an individual of the opposite gender. Typically, it shouldn't be a problem,
unless you are the type of person who prefers your birthday suit.
RAs should have good
leadership, team building, and time management skills. They also function as a
source for resources for the students living in the hall. Think about the
service members you were in charge of while you were in the military, then
remember that most college students have not experienced any of the same level
of training or, in most cases, possess the same degree of discipline. This
might lead to a lack of understanding and frustration, which may cause you
stress and impact your studies. Talk to other RAs, especially veterans who have
worked as RAs, before you commit to make sure you weigh any potential
consequences.
Remember that most
university students living in the residence halls will be first or second year
students. This makes them around 18 to 20 years old. Most veterans are older
than this age group. This means that if you select this option you will likely
be older than most of the students. You must connect with them and foster
positive and inclusive relationships without crossing any boundaries. Think
about the types of questions the residents may ask you when they find out that
you are of legal drinking age and a military veteran… Ridiculous, right? Also,
remember that these students are maybe only two to three months out of high
school in some cases. Things that might seem childish to you may still be very
important to them.
You must also consider
the daily duties required of the RA. RAs plan activities, budgets, and
timelines. They are required to be present in the hall for a specified amount
of hours each week, to participate in floor and hall events, attend weekly
meetings and, oftentimes, to serve on residential life committees.
Does all of this sound
like a pain in the ...??? Well, read on peeps because I haven't gotten to the
good part yet!
Most
colleges/universities offer compensation to the RAs. This may mean free or
reduced housing, a free meal plan, or reduced tuition. You should also get a
single room, so no pesky roommates. Plus, there is typically a paid amount of
hourly work that is required. So, maybe you have to go to weekly meetings and
training events, getting free housing while you are also getting a housing
stipend on your Post-9/11 GI Bill is awesome. Keep an eye out for the
application deadline dates as they are often posted almost a year in advance. Finally,
watch the video to see examples of resident advisor positions.
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